Comments for http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog Mon, 26 Jul 2010 08:47:58 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 Comment on The Secret To Becoming a Real Dad- How Would You Rate Yours? by Langeni http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2005/07/08/the-secret-to-becoming-a-real-dad-how-would-you-rate-yours/comment-page-1/#comment-185 Langeni Mon, 26 Jul 2010 08:47:58 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/?p=7#comment-185 I fully agree on this and I do hope that we are all learning. My father was absent and my brothers, especially my eldest is really struggling. The eldest just like you mentioned, career wise is lost and keeps saying he is ok where he is at, and that is doing nothing for himself. My other brother who I come after is a bit better because somehow he was attached to my mother but also struggling emotionally. He will say one thing and then say another and insists he meant the same thing. He is struggling with relationships...how can I help.. I fully agree on this and I do hope that we are all learning. My father was absent and my brothers, especially my eldest is really struggling. The eldest just like you mentioned, career wise is lost and keeps saying he is ok where he is at, and that is doing nothing for himself. My other brother who I come after is a bit better because somehow he was attached to my mother but also struggling emotionally. He will say one thing and then say another and insists he meant the same thing. He is struggling with relationships…how can I help..

]]> Comment on The Secret To Becoming a Real Dad- How Would You Rate Yours? by Rosamaria http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2005/07/08/the-secret-to-becoming-a-real-dad-how-would-you-rate-yours/comment-page-1/#comment-184 Rosamaria Thu, 20 May 2010 17:24:44 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/?p=7#comment-184 I truly apologize for my English mistakes. I´m Mexican. I appreciate all the incredible articles!!! I agree totally with you on the fact that a loving, caring and supporting dad is really a key for developing a healthy self esteem on sons and daughters. I´m divorcing an insecure man with emotionally problems and with a very low self esteem. He never realize how much I loved him. During his childhood, his dad was always absent, only supporting economically, for the rest the dad was not caring, giving and showing love to him. The oldest daughter was the favorite one, and the dad was not caring on letting it show to the rest of the family. Her mom told him that his dad didn’t want that he born. He was the last one of four kids. The story of my marriage with him is long, painful, and complicated to write it here. But I can tell you, that my marriage with him was a very emotionally and mentally wasting painful one. Its hard to deal with a man that stay emotionally being a kid in need of love and nothing what you can do, will reassure it to him. I truly apologize for my English mistakes. I´m Mexican. I appreciate all the incredible articles!!! I agree totally with you on the fact that a loving, caring and supporting dad is really a key for developing a healthy self esteem on sons and daughters. I´m divorcing an insecure man with emotionally problems and with a very low self esteem. He never realize how much I loved him. During his childhood, his dad was always absent, only supporting economically, for the rest the dad was not caring, giving and showing love to him. The oldest daughter was the favorite one, and the dad was not caring on letting it show to the rest of the family. Her mom told him that his dad didn’t want that he born. He was the last one of four kids. The story of my marriage with him is long, painful, and complicated to write it here. But I can tell you, that my marriage with him was a very emotionally and mentally wasting painful one. Its hard to deal with a man that stay emotionally being a kid in need of love and nothing what you can do, will reassure it to him.

]]> Comment on Rate YOUR Self-image by mahesh http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2005/08/22/rate-your-self-image/comment-page-1/#comment-183 mahesh Sat, 20 Feb 2010 18:42:27 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/?p=10#comment-183 Great quiz Larry, Had been to PTA of my child today and there was heated discussion about discipline and punishment including corporal punishment. The school's policy is to not condone corporal punishment but some physical violence like slapping, twisting ears and pinching is taken as 'part of life' as long as it is not done vindictively. What is your take on corporal punishments at schools - does it contribute to poor self image and problems in life later on? regards mahesh Great quiz Larry,
Had been to PTA of my child today and there was heated discussion about discipline and punishment including corporal punishment. The school’s policy is to not condone corporal punishment but some physical violence like slapping, twisting ears and pinching is taken as ‘part of life’ as long as it is not done vindictively. What is your take on corporal punishments at schools – does it contribute to poor self image and problems in life later on?
regards
mahesh

]]> Comment on Larry Bilotta’s Recommended List Of Resources that Produce RESULTS by Larry http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2006/01/31/larry-bilottas-recommended-list-of-resources-that-produce-results/comment-page-1/#comment-181 Larry Mon, 25 Jan 2010 17:53:05 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/?p=17#comment-181 Hi Richard, One of the most frequent I receive is “how do I know when my marriage is really over”. Very often the spouse that wants to save the marriage waits far too long, doing all the wrong things they were programmed to do in order to destroy their marriage just like their father/mother did before them. And if you did wait too long, then it’s not about the marriage anymore. It’s about whether you want your wife in your life again. If the two of you have children, you will always be connected, so it’s up to you if you want to get a new relationship started. I work with individual spouses to help them create a new relationship with their spouse, but the success rate of these individuals depends on their willingness to be a good student of what I teach. You can listen to some of my past students' situations and results after they completed my Environment Changer program here: http://www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com I hope this helps. - Larry Hi Richard,

One of the most frequent I receive is “how do I know when my marriage is really over”. Very often the spouse that wants to save the marriage waits far too long, doing all the wrong things they were programmed to do in order to destroy their marriage just like their father/mother did before them.

And if you did wait too long, then it’s not about the marriage anymore. It’s about whether you want your wife in your life again. If the two of you have children, you will always be connected, so it’s up to you if you want to get a new relationship started.

I work with individual spouses to help them create a new relationship with their spouse, but the success rate of these individuals depends on their willingness to be a good student of what I teach. You can listen to some of my past students’ situations and results after they completed my Environment Changer program here: http://www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com

I hope this helps.

- Larry

]]> Comment on Larry Bilotta’s Recommended List Of Resources that Produce RESULTS by Richard http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2006/01/31/larry-bilottas-recommended-list-of-resources-that-produce-results/comment-page-1/#comment-180 Richard Sat, 23 Jan 2010 00:55:03 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/?p=17#comment-180 Larry, I came across your website when I googled why second marriages fail. I have been divorced for less than one year. Your map on the secret path to divorce really hit home especially the picture of the people leaping over the cliff. That is just what it felt like. Is there any chance of my wife and I getting back together or shold I look elsewhere? Larry,

I came across your website when I googled why second marriages fail. I have been divorced for less than one year. Your map on the secret path to divorce really hit home especially the picture of the people leaping over the cliff. That is just what it felt like. Is there any chance of my wife and I getting back together or shold I look elsewhere?

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