http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/ Mon, 26 Jul 2010 08:47:58 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/comment-page-1/#comment-173 Dawn Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:38:51 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/#comment-173 Hi, Ive only just looked at this blog, but was amazed by how simple it was to read and see yourself in. I can see lots of things that I do myself without even realising, especially the Overvalueing people one! Not because I have neccesarily wanted to get things out of them..well maybe unconsiously I can definately see that! but I under value myself and dont want to put my needs above theirs and that not healthy. Not sure how to use this information yet, but its definately given me food for thought. thank you x Hi, Ive only just looked at this blog, but was amazed by how simple it was to read and see yourself in. I can see lots of things that I do myself without even realising, especially the Overvalueing people one! Not because I have neccesarily wanted to get things out of them..well maybe unconsiously I can definately see that! but I under value myself and dont want to put my needs above theirs and that not healthy. Not sure how to use this information yet, but its definately given me food for thought. thank you x

]]> http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/comment-page-1/#comment-166 Larry Bilotta Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:34:40 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/#comment-166 Joanie, Thanks for your comment about 21 ways. Here is an ironic fact. The creator of the 21 Ways To Bring Out The Worst in People was created by the same woman who put me through my 27 years of Hell...my wife Marsha. Under all that fierce-ness is a wonderful and thoughtful human being who has closely observed for many years how people treat each other so badly. One of the best strategies for using the 21 ways list is to copy several, carry them with you and if they offend you, pull one out and say "Here's an interesting list I discovered on the internet that really helped me." Joanie,
Thanks for your comment about 21 ways. Here is an ironic fact. The creator of the 21 Ways To Bring Out The Worst in People was created by the same woman who put me through my 27 years of Hell…my wife Marsha. Under all that fierce-ness is a wonderful and thoughtful human being who has closely observed for many years how people treat each other so badly. One of the best strategies for using the 21 ways list is to copy several, carry them with you and if they offend you, pull one out and say “Here’s an interesting list I discovered on the internet that really helped me.”

]]> http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/comment-page-1/#comment-165 Joanie Shellhammer Sun, 08 Feb 2009 21:47:39 +0000 http://selfesteemsecrets4women.com/blog/index.php/2007/12/19/22/#comment-165 Thank you for your blog! I printed the "21 Ways" list to put on my wall as a reminder to turn those negatives into positive appreciations for others. There are a couple of people who engage in these "21" behaviors, and I'm working on a strategy for immediately turning what they say into an affirming comment. Any suggestions? Thank you :) Thank you for your blog! I printed the “21 Ways” list to put on my wall as a reminder to turn those negatives into positive appreciations for others. There are a couple of people who engage in these “21″ behaviors, and I’m working on a strategy for immediately turning what they say into an affirming comment. Any suggestions?
Thank you

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