I Want To CONGRATULATE You…

“Congratulate me on what?” you’re probably saying to yourself.

I just wanted to take this opportunity to congratulate you for accepting that SOMETHING in your life needs to change.

Whether you’re struggling with negative feelings, a low self image, shyness, relationship issues or jealousy…

The first step in finding a solution to those problems is realizing that they exist!

In fact, I know MANY people (some who are very close to me) who REFUSE to accept that anything is wrong in their lives.

They are extremely negative people who lash out at others and point fingers when things don’t go their way. They refuse to admit that their negative feelings absolutely DOMINATE their every thought.

It’s very difficult for me sometimes when I’m around these people and they make bad decisions that do nothing but create more turmoil in their lives.

Quite often I just want to reach out, shake them and say “Wake up! You deserve better! I can help you!”

But the truth of the matter is…it is virtually impossible to help someone who won’t admit they have a problem and won’t accept help from ANYONE, under any circumstances….period.

So today I want to congratulate you for NOT being one of those people.

How do I know you’re not one of those people?

Simply because you’re reading this right now!

Those people I was referring to earlier have a VERY hard time taking advice from ANYONE. Some of them even try to ‘act’ like they’re better than others, so they turn their nose up at any sort of “self help” information.

But what’s really sad is that deep down inside they feel they’re actually… “Less than”. And I know this is true because in a few rare instances they’ve actually come to me for help.

I remember one woman in particular where after our initial consultation, she told me how she regretted the fact that it took her so long to get enough courage to face up to reality.

I sat silently listening to her heartbreaking stories of how her negative feelings affected every aspect of her life, eventually leaving her with very few people she could still consider as friends.

She used to get so upset she would actually BLACK OUT after one of her “explosive episodes” where she yelled at the top of her lungs and completely lost control, seemingly turning into a different person.

Simply put…learning to control her negative feelings gave this woman her life back.

And that’s why I want to commend you on actively seeking out ways to achieve a better life.

I don’t care if you buy up every self improvement product on the market or just search for free articles to read on the internet like this one.

But whatever you do, make sure to ACT on whatever insight you learn about. Just reading about ways to improve your self esteem will NOT give you a better self image.

But I’m sure you already know that.

Just by reading this, you’ve proved that you have “what it takes” to achieve a LESS stressful and MORE fulfilling life. And I believe ANYONE can do this once they take that first, very important step like you have….acceptance.

I hope you’ve enjoyed this article and found it well worth the time it took you to read it. Next week I’ll have a BRAND NEW video for you…so stay tuned.

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Wishing you all the best,

Larry Bilotta

http://www.selfesteemsecrets4women.com

15 thoughts on “I Want To CONGRATULATE You…”

  1. So very true. It is very difficult to admit and become aware ‘that you are your worst enemy’ I still cant fully accept it nor see it, but I’m still trying.
    Thanks for your help.

  2. Excellent article and thoughts!!! I can relate, and have people I know that are like this. I myself am blessed with low self esteem, so it forces me to combat it everyday with some meditations, self help,etc., which has improved my life ten fold!!!
    Thanks for all the help!!!

    WT

  3. Larry, it’s been a while since we talked. The soul search continues. It took us 5 years to be completely honest to each other about our feeling. It may take the same amount of time to understand and accept each other’s past, present and future. But we know that we are on the right track. Thank you for all your help, and I hope one day I can tell you that I like myself again, I am happy, and I embrace everything about my life.

  4. I used to “knew better”and had solutions for everybodys problems….. but mine.
    Now I can talk, and feel completely peaceful inside. I am listening every advice and my life is much easier.

  5. It was important for me to realize that when I have a problem with another person, regardless of what it is, it is my problem and I am responsible for it. Both problem and solution starts with me. It is from this stance that I can make a difference in my life.

  6. i feel like i got a new degree in my life.
    it feels awesome to be able to relate with people inthe right way after a looong struggle to push them as far as possible.
    thanks Larry you gave me something i want to share with all-a smile and laugher.
    God sure uses all means to bless his people and may He do that for you and your famly

  7. tks larry once again, Iam very gratefull with your help,I have accepted that I was very negative myself and my wife, I believe this the mayor reason my marriage was destroyed, my wife still very negative, she doesnot believe I can change ,even she doesnot accept that was the problem of both, but I really feel bad of her, but I feel much better with my seelf that I am optimist,even that my family is broken separated, but if she does not want to have a second chance is up to her,I now believe she is the losser and I the winner just think mentally but the real true is that is this case,nobody wins,I also discovered that ladies talks about everything with her friends,this makes very upset, now I dont care before, tks larry I feel alot better , I still suffering as a human,but just trying the best for my children. god bless your family and you larry. tks marcelo

  8. Larry, if I may give Marcelo an encouraging word?

    It is in “gifting” to others that our own wealth is increased, and our self-worth is realized, Marcelo. be sure to “gift” your Beloved with good, constructive thoughts all the day you draw breath, and it will be much easier for you to show to her a changed man, and a man she would love to call “husband.” “Father for my children,” too!

  9. Thank you for your help Larry, I just realised that sometimes in life, what may stop you from solving a problem is actualy failing to admit that you have one. And I also hope that everyone who reads this article understand7 and uses it to solve the issues they cud have in their lives. Thank you so much and may God bless you for helping people like us.

  10. i love every article i readr so far and it realy helped me alot in many ways, am the person iam today thanx for all the article u send me every week….

  11. i love every article i readr so far and it realy helped me alot in many ways, am the person iam today thanx for all the article u send me every week…. Thanx larry

  12. Hi Larry, It seems you really know when I need a boost. I appreciate your blogs and appreciate you. I still struggle with my negative feelings at times but do recognize them. Your right, its not my fault I was dealt a bad hand, however I don’t want my younger children growing up like me.

  13. Hi Alisa,

    Thanks for your feedback. It helps that you are learning this information so you are conscious of the values you pass onto your children.

    – Larry

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